Six
cogent reasons have been linked to the tumultuous marriage of Rivers
native, Tonto Charity Dikeh as deduced from her recent explosive
interview.
Tonto Dikeh and Oladunni Churchill
Nollywood actress, Tonto Dike’s marriage to Olakunle Oladunni Churchill apparently came to a sudden end last month.
Since then, the actress has been lamenting, sharing photos and
videos of abuses she allegedly suffered in the hands of her estranged
husband.
She has also made several allegations which portrayed her husband as a ”woman beater, a liar and fraud.”
As Nigerians keep sympathizing with the controversial actress, here
are six things gathered from her revelations as the real causes of the
crash of her 17-month-old marriage as revealed in a recent interview.
1. Churchill allegedly abandoned Tonto and her son because of Rosaline.
Tonto said, “I am aware of her. I am aware that she is sleeping
with my husband. I am aware that my husband is taking care of her. I am
also aware that she is the reason that my husband abandoned his son and
me for close to two months just before the Big Foundation thing we did
in December” disclosed Tonto Dikeh in the interview.
“I am aware that’s the reason he abandoned his family because
he took her on a trip. No she is not my husband’s sister. My husband is
not her brother. She does not know me. Like I said I have not seen her
before. I have never even spoken to my husband about her before but I do
know their story. And I do know that they are in love.”
2. She was accused of pushing her mother-in-law down who it was alleged, caught her smoking.
And on this she said, “That is a lie from the devil. I am close to
my mother-in-law. My mother-in-law has never ever seen me smoke. There
are times when I am really, really sick. ‘Mum if you are watching you
know this is true.
“There are times you have even offered me panadol. There are so
many times you have offered me drugs that would have made my body better
but I didn’t take because I knew I was breast-feeding’.”
“Every time my mother-in-law came to me and I was sick ‘I would
tell her no mum I don’t want to take Panadol’, as little as Panadol, as
little as Alabakun, as little as anything that would make me get my
strength back. I would tell her I don’t want to take it. I didn’t know
what it would do to my child,” she further said.
“My mother-in-law has never ever, and I am saying this with God
put in this, that she has never ever caught me smoking. I did not push
my my mother-in-law down.”
3. She was accused of taking hard drugs but she reportedly keeps a file of monthly drug tests and letters she writes to her son.
According to her, “Someone coming out to associate me with drugs as a mother. That hurts me so much because no one sees how good of a mother I am.
“Nobody knows the sacrifices I have made for my son. I have a
file at home, I do a drug test almost every month and I write a letter
to my son and I put it (breaks down in tears)
“I write a letter to my son every month on his birthday and I
tell him how much he has changed my life, how much I am a better person
because he is in my life.
“I tell him how much I have stopped so many things for him.
That really destroyed me. It really broke me into a million pieces.
That’s the worst thing I have heard.”
4. She alleged her husband has other children besides Andre.
Tonto said, “My son is not the first child my husband has. And
that was one of the major concerns in my marriage, in the early part of
it because he lied to me about not having a child.
“He even lied to me about not being married. I did not know he
was married until the day they posted the picture of the wedding. He
didn’t tell me he had a child. He always lied about it. I don’t know how
I found out but I did find out.
“Recently two women have contacted me that they have children for my husband but I cannot verify
it.
“One of them said her child is 9 months old. The other said her
child is 2 years but I cannot verify it just like I can’t verify the
gay claims on him.
“I have no knowledge about it. I don’t know if it is true or not true. I don’t know anything about it.”
5. Her husband infected her with STDs.
She said, “There are some things I will not like to re-discuss.
I did post something about the STD. I am not taking back my words
because it is not a lie but I will not promote it” in reference to her
claim that her husband gave her STDs.
“I will not go ahead and embarrass my husband in that manner even if I have. I will like that to just end,” she further said.
6. She said her husband constantly abused her, showing proofs.
She said, “The domestic violence is real. It’s real. How I lived to suffer it and go through it over and over again, I do not understand.
“A lot of people have blamed me. A lot of people have said a lot of things. I have read a lot of things.
“I stayed back in my marriage not because of my child but
because I believe you cannot be abused or you cannot leave a child where
there is abuse and you claim you are doing it for your child.
“No. I stayed because I was doing it for myself. I stayed because I loved my husband with all of my heart.
“I stayed because he had begged me to stay a couple of times. I
stayed because I didn’t just want to give up. I didn’t want to give up
on the marriage just like that. People change.
“Anytime something like this happens, my husband comes up with a
pastor who is always in the house the next day or two days later who is
begging, who is doing stuff. Yes but we have never had a real
counseling.
“He would never accept that he is doing it. That’s the point.
That’s the worst. And I keep asking him that if you are so ashamed of
what you do to me then why you did it.
“My husband has humiliated me so much with this. And for
anybody to tell me that I am lying against my husband that even hurts me
more.”
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